Researchers at Edinburgh University believe that the biochemical changes associated with postpartum depression may have been a useful coping mechanism for our ancient ancestors. They speculate that mothers would have benefitted from agressive urges that lead them to fiercely protect their babies.


How would feeling horrible and incapable of taking care of the baby have helped a mother protect it?! I have had major depression several times. I was depressed after having my two children. I could barely keep going. Depression gives one a feeling of hopelessness and inability to help oneself. Where do these scientists get their kooky notions?
Love and hope to all of you who share this burden. I’ve been married 27 years. My husband was diagnosed with depression and PTSD 26 years ago. After 18 years of various therapies, he finally found a physiatrist who was dedicated to helping him. He also worked his way through the 12 step program. I’ve never known anyone braver, though it is still very hard sometimes. I’m so lucky in that we love each other very much. If you are a spiritual person, don’t pray for a cure–pray for strength and wisdom…and happiness. I know all about giving the family excuses, about having a suicidal spouse, about seeing your husband curled up in a ball or with self inflicted bruises. All about a loved one who can’t work (8 year stretch at one point). But I’ve never known a more thoughtful man or beautiful soul. I’m a self-confident, happy person with my own little business. That helps me keep a healthy life and outlook. Keeping faith is hardest when it is most needed– You are all in my prayers tonight– I am thinking of YOU!